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Proximity



When you are in the field, a shy woman, reluctant to even make eye contact with you, may find you visually appealing and on a conscious or unconscious level reveal her interest through her proximity.



Typically if a girl is giving you proximity, she will be standing five or six feet away and she won't be facing your direction. Dynamic social homeostasis brings her to the perimeter, but prevents her from coming too close.

If you open her, she will open receptively.



Have you ever walked into a nightclub and found yourself standing near a woman you were attracted to, if only to be near her and check her out more? Maybe instead of approaching her, you ordered a drink at the bar right next to her. Have you ever been in a store shopping where it seemed that a woman you had seen earlier stood near you several times over a short period of time?



Her repeated proximity indicates a potential interest. She may be putting herself near you on purpose hoping that you might start something. It's also quite possible that her replication circuitry is placing her near you, even though she is not consciously aware of what her body is doing. She will still open receptively.

These opportunities occur with more frequency than you may have previously noticed, so pay attention.